As her Father, I'm not going to just sit by and let different men do the things I am willing and able to do.
You can guess from STBX prior behavior, but they could marry.I have some language in my parenting time agreement so that stopped my ex cold in her tracks from exposing my kids to her bed hopping, but I have them 50% of the time (or more) and made sure my wishes were included in our plan.My ex still makes different parenting choices than me, and I don't agree with most of them, but the reality is that my children aren't in any danger and they respect me and have lots of fun at my place because I'm stable, loving, and have a structured environment for them. Spend your time and energy on things of value and longevity. I'm not a psychologist but I have been a through my parents divorce as a child and it's not fun.I am confident this guy is temporary based off STBXWs relationship history which includes, multiple divorces, lived with 2 other boyfriends, many other "relationships", had a child out of wedlock with a drug addict (my adopted daughter), and also she has moved to different houses 8 different times. I am her longest relationship which was 2 years of dating plus 4 years of "marriage". My STBXW and her attorney see no problem with any of her behavior and refuse to make any change. I have filed a motion to restrict transportation and who can watch/keep her to STBXWs Family and also for me to have FROR.My question is, does anyone know of a specific study or article on the affects of introducing a child to a new boyfriend/girlfriend while seperated or while divorcing? So I am 3 months into the divorce process and we have hit a snag.As I said in previous posts, my STBXW has a boyfriend whom she supposedly met the week after she moved out which was Thanksgiving of last year. The problem is that STBXW is involving this new guy into my Daughters life to what I think is a ridiculous degree.We have allready had a hearing back in Feb to set temporary child support and custody.The result of that hearing is that I am required to pay child support and I have my Daughter every Wed and 2 weekends a month.Do you know how your daughter is going at the moment?How she is feeling about everything, or how she feels about her mum dating so soon?