Which goes over the mindset, actions, and what not to do when texting her.
This is crucial for texting success whether that be for a girlfriend or to get laid.
In this article I will be going over how to craft great first messages that both set you apart from the generic norm of typical boring guys, as well as how to instantly establish yourself as someone of value.
But before you get into this article on exactly how and when to send those first texts you should also be sure to check out my article on what to text a girl you just met.
Another way to do this verbally is to experiment with sounds – think sighs, moans, purrs, and heavy breathing. Take a cue from what they already enjoy: Does your partner love doing it doggy style? Or do they get turned on more than anything by a sexy massage?
Sexy questions: Dirty talk is way better than if it’s a conversation. Describing those activities or incorporating keywords that will help evoke their signature turn-ons is a great way to target dirty talk to your specific audience for maximum effect.
A good tip I constantly mention throughout this site is to give off the vibe that you are constantly in demand and lead an exciting lifestyle. All of these things will paint the picture that you are a social, fun, flirty, non-generic guys who leads an exciting life.
So when she messages you something like that make sure that more times than not you are out on the go — just got in the door — at a friends house (girl or guy), or somewhere else that a social in demand guy may be. This is what will make you more desirable in her eyes.
For example I had a girl who worked night shifts as a receptionist.
For this girl the best time to text her was between the hours of 11pm – 4am because those hours are extremely slow for business. Usually the best times are during her lunch break, in the evening, or any other free time she has. And while this can obviously work it is not the best way to go about doing so.