She may be aggressive about this, so be ready to hand over your phone.
She wants to check your messages and photos and interrogate you about every female name and photo.
The information in this article is going to assume that you are indeed looking for a more substantial relationship rather than something that is short term. You just arrived as a tourist, a new English teacher, a new exchange student or a factory worker.
Koreans tend to live with their family until they are married off in their late 20s or early 30s.
Every girls hates it when their boyfriend says, “I’m going back home now… Thanks for the year of free sex and being my tour guide. Well, they don’t actually say those words, but the meaning is similar. A Korean woman is very respectful, loyal and obedient to her parents and the parents, in turn, are very protective and meddlesome about their daughter’s personal affairs.
Even when a Korean girl is dating a Korean guy, parents have significant power in manipulating her choice of a potential husband. Korean girls seek their parents’ approval and may end up breaking up with a guy if the parents disapprove and tell her to break up.
If you are stubborn and insist on not showing your phone, she will eventually get her hands on it and check it whether you like it or not.
Some Korean women, especially older ones, tend to have a fantasy of meeting a foreigner and escaping patriarchal Korean society. You are clearly a more positive alternative than marrying a Korean guy and having to deal with an evil Korean mother-in-law or other intrusive family members.