She "broke up with her boyfriend of 6 years to be with me".I know she loves me and she feels the same way about me but up until now, she has only shown glimpses of the same type of commitment I have put into this.Her relationship with her ex was a loveless relationship and she fell out of love with him about 2 years ago.We have been "seeing" each other for the past 6 months and things have always been amazing when we are together.I am completely in love with this girl with intentions on being with her for a long time and we have both agreed at times that we want to be together and spend the rest of our lives together.
I'm not a girl x D but I noticed a HUGE RED FLAG in terms of "what would your reaction be".It sounds like a huge confusing situation for both you and her. Focus with your head and not your heart for a minute. YOU have intentions and "at times" she went along with it sounds like what you're saying. How is she committing to be with you when she has a BOYFRIEND of SIX YEARS? You should have BACKED OFF when she gave you mixed signals...She just broke up with somebody so I would definatly stop asking where are we going? her interest in you in TANKED when you kept pushing the issue. I'm going to stop reading the rest of your post and say this.She's also asked to stop having sex with you for a while until you're both in a comitted relationship..in my opinion this is her trying to move you from a FWB position to a Proper relationship material guy..She has pulled away from me so many times but when that happens, she comes back in a day or two as she can't go that long without talking to me. It just feels like every time we take 5 steps forward we take 10 steps back.The other day she asked me what my reaction would be if we stopped having sex until we're official.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.This is a very sticky situation and it has me emotionally drained.