But they may not be ready to start looking at houses or naming your future kids!
But when they do, you can be assured that it’s after some good thought, since they’re not likely to jump into something they may regret later. Oscillating physical needs Like the conversation about the ex, sex is also tricky with a nearly-divorced person.
This means that you’ll probably have to hold back on venting your own feelings for the time being.
All this might seem unfair, but considering all the stuff they’re going through, it isn’t. The ex will show up in conversation The ex-spouse is a reality you can’t run away from, however much you may want to!!
Isn’t it going to be a risky and super-messy affair?
Since they’ve probably been separated a while, they’re craving for some company and intimacy, but at the same time, being in such a vulnerable situation scares them.
This can lead to some oscillating between two extremes, which, in all likelihood, will drive you nuts!
You’ll obviously have to sit through a few rants, but any more and you’re turning into their substitute therapist! They may not be ready to commit right away A person going through divorce has been burnt, and they’re going to be wary of the commitment waters for some time.
If they’re ready to date, it means that they’ve gotten over (hopefully) their ex and they’re ready to have a relationship with someone.