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This is what normal looks like in some industries, at some levels. He's constantly freaking out about challenges that wouldn't be challenges at all if he weren't such a delicate [____]ing flower.

I do not want to listen to him trying (and failing) to solve life problems that I consider insignificant. You're going to make me watch this awesome video you just saw on You Tube?

There is, quite obviously, a far broader group of occupations from which to draw potential mates than this banker/artist dichotomy.

But for a certain type of person on Wall Street, this is basically how the world breaks down: you are either “killing it” it on the Street or starving while you pursue your “art.” Bankerella’s response is extreme but also revealing.

Over at Wall Street Oasis, a blogger writing under the pseudonym Bankerella has stirred up quite a controversy by rating the suitability of men in finance for extremely busy women in investment banking.

(Spoiler alert: she prefers traders over all contenders.) It’s the type of thing obviously designed to stir things up. Many are written by men, who are outraged that a woman would dare rate their suitability in this way (because, you know, guys never do that sort of thing). The best one asked why Bankerella limits her dating pool to people in finance.

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For every loser I've screamed at, there have been nice, normal single guys with perfectly acceptable ZIP codes and ages and jobs and habits who never did a thing wrong but for some reason were chucked after the first or second, or maybe even third, date for being boring, predictable, too nice, too normal, not successful enough, or . The scariest of scary words., or Corporate Strategy at Avon/ Tiffany and so forth.2. They went to the best high schools in their respective countries. If they were here for their MBA, they went to top notch undergraduates either in the US or in their home countries. How can you claim to be independent while expecting men to pay? Dates

For every loser I've screamed at, there have been nice, normal single guys with perfectly acceptable ZIP codes and ages and jobs and habits who never did a thing wrong but for some reason were chucked after the first or second, or maybe even third, date for being boring, predictable, too nice, too normal, not successful enough, or . The scariest of scary words., or Corporate Strategy at Avon/ Tiffany and so forth.2. They went to the best high schools in their respective countries. If they were here for their MBA, they went to top notch undergraduates either in the US or in their home countries. How can you claim to be independent while expecting men to pay? Dates $1,200 Free Dinners and Here My Story: Part 1: My Pursuit of Happyness Part 2: My Pursuit of Happyness See my previous posts in this series: Day 1: To Be A Better Man Day 2: Healthy Competition Among Mature Men Day 3: I HATE YOUDay 4: SWAG, Do You Have It?

Take a read (I’ve cleansed her response of profanity but I think you’ll easily get the flavor of her language): Sure, if you can find any that you can enjoy and respect. Every week I handle a bunch (call it a round half-dozen) of challenges that I consider to be a basic part of my life. Be unable to get enough time to eat or use the bathroom for 6-8 hours. Stand up for yourself to the guy who signs your checks.

Make a big, career-defining decision on data you know is bad.

Professionals (especially traders) understand that there needs to be a constant give and take of value.

Long story short: if a starving artist, musician, waiter, or actor can earn a girl's respect and deliver the goods like a professional, then he's just as good if not better.

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For every loser I've screamed at, there have been nice, normal single guys with perfectly acceptable ZIP codes and ages and jobs and habits who never did a thing wrong but for some reason were chucked after the first or second, or maybe even third, date for being boring, predictable, too nice, too normal, not successful enough, or . The scariest of scary words., or Corporate Strategy at Avon/ Tiffany and so forth.2. They went to the best high schools in their respective countries. If they were here for their MBA, they went to top notch undergraduates either in the US or in their home countries. How can you claim to be independent while expecting men to pay? Dates $1,200 Free Dinners and Here My Story: Part 1: My Pursuit of Happyness Part 2: My Pursuit of Happyness See my previous posts in this series: Day 1: To Be A Better Man Day 2: Healthy Competition Among Mature Men Day 3: I HATE YOUDay 4: SWAG, Do You Have It?Take a read (I’ve cleansed her response of profanity but I think you’ll easily get the flavor of her language): Sure, if you can find any that you can enjoy and respect. Every week I handle a bunch (call it a round half-dozen) of challenges that I consider to be a basic part of my life. Be unable to get enough time to eat or use the bathroom for 6-8 hours. Stand up for yourself to the guy who signs your checks.Make a big, career-defining decision on data you know is bad.Professionals (especially traders) understand that there needs to be a constant give and take of value.Long story short: if a starving artist, musician, waiter, or actor can earn a girl's respect and deliver the goods like a professional, then he's just as good if not better.This post was inspired by What every banker girl needs.Once again, this reminds me that there are many delusional girls in New York City.She responds by describing the non-finance man as a “scrub” who cannot possibly merit her respect.It’s an extreme stance, but it is by no means unique among her Wall Street colleagues. If you choose to read on, prepare for lots of f-bombs.) So yeah, let's talk about the typical scrub, and why I can't handle being around him.Seasoned professionals (especially traders, also lawyers) know that the clock is ticking. Also, the time I've spent with scrubs has just been comedic. Scrubs don't even understand the deliciousness of those hours or why you need to squeeze anything out of them.I'm not even fully convinced that they know what an hour is.

,200 Free Dinners and Here My Story: Part 1: My Pursuit of Happyness Part 2: My Pursuit of Happyness See my previous posts in this series: Day 1: To Be A Better Man Day 2: Healthy Competition Among Mature Men Day 3: I HATE YOUDay 4: SWAG, Do You Have It?

Take a read (I’ve cleansed her response of profanity but I think you’ll easily get the flavor of her language): Sure, if you can find any that you can enjoy and respect. Every week I handle a bunch (call it a round half-dozen) of challenges that I consider to be a basic part of my life. Be unable to get enough time to eat or use the bathroom for 6-8 hours. Stand up for yourself to the guy who signs your checks.

Make a big, career-defining decision on data you know is bad.

Professionals (especially traders) understand that there needs to be a constant give and take of value.

Long story short: if a starving artist, musician, waiter, or actor can earn a girl's respect and deliver the goods like a professional, then he's just as good if not better.

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  1. Sep 21, 2011. Just wondering how you guys feel about dating girls also in finance any kind. I know we get shit on a lot hey hey, Leveraged Sellout but seriously, it's hard to win. You're too nice, people shit on you/patronize you/hit on you inappropriately. Too competitive, people hate you and think you're bitchy/trying to.

  2. Aug 9, 2012. My other job is working as "Life & Dating Coach". Started as a hobby in 2010, I mainly focus on Asian Investment Bankers in the New York City area. Here is My Blog. I have helped many men get married as well as get into a long lasting relationship. I also write a column for one of the best dating coaches in.

  3. Dec 31, 2015. If you struggling with dating, then this point comes before all others. The phrasing is borrowed from a mentor I had back in the day for good reason every other thing here is based on a recognition of this fact. While I recognize that a lot of dudes aren't comfortable with conceptparticularly PUA goobers, who.

  4. May 19, 2012. It's Saturday, monkeys. And while I normally regale you with my highly ineffectual wrap ups at this time, this piece from BI has compelled me to write about something a little different Let's talk about chicks, man. - Hedge Funder on dating “the dumber the girl, the better”

  5. Oct 22, 2012. That's why we've reached out to both male and female bankers, traders, analysts and hedge funders, etc. to create a definitive guide for dating on Wall Street. Just remember There are always exceptions to every rule. 1. Don't give out keys to your apartment. - 25 Things You Should Know About Dating A.

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