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Giving makes them feel out of control and threatened as they worry that the reason for their shame will be revealed.

There must be a state of equivalence that assures harmony in our loving relationships. Srini Pillay, author of Debunking Myths of the Mind, wrote an article for Psychology Today stating that “Selfish lovers are often hiding something they are very ashamed of as well.

When you point this out you’re told you’re being “selfish” for wanting him/her to pay attention.5.

He/she gives only when he/she expects to get something back in return.

So how can you tell earlier on that you may be falling for a selfish man or woman? He/she mostly talks about him/herself – what he/she likes, needs and wants in a partner, in a relationship, in life etc.

What you like, need and want doesn’t seem to matter.2.


  1. Aug 21, 2017. Once upon a time, I dated a guy by the name of Brad. Brad was charming. He was a paid breakdancer and party promoter — and yes, Brad definitely had the body to match the profession. However, the keyword here is that I used to date him. You see, Brad and I broke up because he never actually cared.

  2. With this strong feeling of having to cover up all the time, they hold onto their love very tightly because giving it up makes them feel as though they are sliding on ice.” There is a point when you need to stand back and ask yourself, “Is this self-love and preservation, or just plain selfishness controlling this relationship?

  3. Feb 4, 2015. Unless they physically won't let you share popcorn at the cinema, we have 7 easier ways to see if you have a selfish lover.

  4. Signs Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is Selfish. signs-your-boy-girl-friend-is-selfish-he- Have you ever been out on a date and your date was rude to a service person and even though you were first so strongly attracted to him/her, the attraction suddenly went down a few notches? May be you have an ex who you still have.

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