Don't wait for love to find you in order to start living.You will attract what you are: if you are a couch potato, you will attract a coach potato.
Jealousy is a negative emotion and will repel what you desire.
It doesn't really matter what is on the list as long as it easily generates good feelings that you have toward yourself.
The more you focus on what you love about yourself, the more self-love you will experience.
Instead of feeling jealous, understand if you are seeing someone else living your dream, your dream is getting closer.
So instead of being jealous, celebrate the love you see and bless all the loving relationships you witness.